Ailsa KeppiePeople Pleasing: The Pros and ConsWe often hear these days about the idea of being a ‘People Pleaser’ as a bad thing. We roll our eyes, our cheeks flush and we wish we could…4 min read·Feb 26, 2024----
Ailsa KeppieGender and the Search for SelfMany of us are realizing that this current wave of interest and dare I say, conflict, around gender, is touching something deeper than the…5 min read·Aug 24, 2023----
Ailsa KeppieinThe Taoist OnlineFundamentalist Thought and the Need for SafetySome terms and their definitions as I refer to them in this piece.8 min read·Aug 11, 2023--1--1
Ailsa KeppieThe Seduction of StabilityMuch of our cultural and societal values and teachings, promote the idea that stability creates happiness. If you have a stable family, a…3 min read·May 2, 2023----
Ailsa Keppie“I’m a guy, not a mind reader!”So I have spent the last week or two having some really great talks with my guy friends, and to say its been eye-opening is an…4 min read·Apr 24, 2023----
Ailsa KeppieGrown Up RelationshipsOne of the primary milestones we have celebrated about being ‘grown up’ is that of finding our life partner or soul mate, or at the very…4 min read·Feb 18, 2023----
Ailsa KeppieHas the Nuclear Family Unit Contributed to Dysfunctional Relationship Patterns?I was listening to a podcast this morning, ‘The Mythic Masculine’, and it raised an interesting inquiry for me.4 min read·Jan 17, 2023----
Ailsa KeppieMonogamy- An Antiquated Idea?When I work with couples these days, it is almost inevitable that the topic of fidelity comes up in the discussion. It is almost equally…3 min read·Oct 3, 2022----
Ailsa KeppieLife is a like a string of pearls… — Pleasure For HealthI first heard this as a writing exercise. I was working on my memoir, By the Light of the Crescent Moon, and it was sometimes difficult to…3 min read·Jun 13, 2022----